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Mature Content

The radio was on as it frequently is when I'm driving, and the host was doing a good job promoting an upcoming show. Then he said these words, "There will be mature content; those who are easily offended may wish not to tune in." Although I appreciated the warning, I found myself wondering why we use the phrase, "mature content," in this context.

I mean we teach our kids and grandchildren not to use bad language, to understand the difference between private and public behaviour and to respect themselves and others. And then, when adults do and say the things that kids learn not to, it is called "mature content," as if ony those with sufficient maturity should view or listen certain types of material. I wonder about such things!

On the other hand, we never stop growing up and it is always encouraging to look back and see progress, even though progress doesn't mean perfection. Letting off steam in angry words is something I've come to see the devastating consequences of. It doesn't solve anything; it just expends emotion. Now I would rather work on how to change the situation that elicited the emotion, by calmly talking things through.

As a circle of friends we are growing deeper in relationship, in our skill in expressing the truth in love, and without judgment. We are more prone to trust each other's hearts.

Now that is mature content!

Ephesians 4:29-32 (New Living Translation).
29 Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.
30 And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption.
31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.


Marian said…
Well said.
Melanie Yardley said…
great post! i pray we all fully live out the ephesians scriptures (4:29-32) in our daily lives! shalom <3
Crozon said…
This is a great post - I found it at - and it points an incriminating finger ;-)
Susan said…
We're getting there!
Belinda said…
Hey Crozon, Thank you! I had never heard of and was honoured to be so incriminated. :)

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