Whatever He Says

Thank you to everyone who voted in the Canadian Blog awards. Whatever He Says won Best Religion and Philosophy Blog! Congratulations too, to two other members of our writer's group--Julie Bowles, who won 2nd place with her blog, Devoted to the Lamb , and Susan Starrett, who tied for 3rd place with her blog  God and the Black River --what a celebration for Writers Nest! And dear Dave Hingsburger, my friend, won Best Personal Blog and Best Health Blog with his always challenging and thought provoking blog,  Rolling Around in My Head . Congratulations Dave, and thank you for your continual encouragement and mentorship in writing.

I thought I should explain that I'm filling in at the start of each week for a couple of months for my boss,  Dwayne Milley , who writes Monday Morning emails to our work team; usually on the themes of leadership or belonging.  So my first post of each week lately has centred on these themes. Meanwhile, Dwayne is doing  something much more exciting than work. You can read about his journey in parenthood and adoption on his blog:  Everyone Plays . Last week I mentioned our agency's vision statement that has to do with belonging. I was thinking about "belonging" as Paul and I chatted over breakfast on Saturday. We spoke about a friend who lived in an institution--a place he felt he didn't belong--for 25 years.  I've known this friend since 1974, when Paul and I moved in with our two pre-school children to be house parents at the home in the community that this man had moved to one year earlier.  He was just 41 when I first met him.  With a...

This is an addendum to the blog post I wrote last Monday:  "Thirty Years Later,"  in which I reflected on a battle Paul fought long ago, for changes within the institution he worked at. One morning this week I asked him if he had read it. He smiled and said that he had, then a faraway look came into his eyes and he began to share other changes that he had worked for. "The men would be lined up for showers naked, o ften by  young female staff." He told me how he managed to get housecoats for the men. They all were ordered in blue, but  at least  they   had the dignity of being clothed while waiting in the hallway.  In order to find office space for the Occupational Therapy department, the plan was to order bunk beds for the people on the ward where the offices were to be built. Paul successfully fought to block this plan, saying that the bunk beds would not only be a safety hazard, but that it would be wrong to take precious space from people th...

Two books are currently having the impact of booster  rocket s in my life. Wikipedia  defines a booster rocket as: " a strap-on rocket used to augment the core launch vehicle's takeoff thrust and payload capability. Boosters are generally necessary to launch  spacecraft  into Earth's orbit or beyond." A great description of the impact of these books on me. Theologian and writer, Dallas Willard died in 2013. Ever  since reading an article about him by John Ortberg, written after his death and published in Christianity Today, I have wanted to read his books. You can read the article for yourself  here. In Willard's book,  The Spirit of the Disciplines , he opens up the difference between trying to follow Christ by responding to life's circumstances in a "godly way," and actually becoming godly in character by following Christ's pattern of life--the spiritual disciplines he practiced. Willard the describes those disciplines and how their ...

I sat across from Paul recently at a meeting at work. He was challenging us to think differently about supports to people with disabilities.  My mind went back thirty years to when he was in his last months at Pine Ridge, the institution he had worked at for almost 13 years and was then helping to close. During his time working there, he was always in a battle for improvements, always a visionary who drove change. He petitioned for a "village area" on the institution property, where several portables gave people an opportunity to live in a more homelike environment and get ready for the next step--living in the outside world--the community.  He fought for breakfast to be cooked on the large wards on the weekends, so that the men who lived there would have the pleasure of smelling bacon and eggs cooking. It also meant that they could sleep in later on those days and not miss breakfast--simple things that most people take for granted.  Before this, some people did st...

We relaxed, some of us in the wingback recliners, with feet up;  others sinking into the welcoming, cushiony golden leather of the couch. Lamps softly lit the big room at the back of our house where a small group of our friends gets together weekly for dinner and a chat.  We call it "cell group," because in our faith, the analogy of "the body" is used for a church community.  So we are a small part of a body, a "cell;" in other words we're just a group of friends who love one another and enjoy getting together. And we encourage each other in life and faith. Last night we were on our second week of studying a book by  Royal Hamel . The book is called,  Unmuzzle Your Inner Sheep . It's about freeing yourself to share faith--not about putting yourself out to graze!  We're enjoying the conversation the book has prompted. We talked about the struggle between obeying the "Great Commission" to share the good news of Jesus' li...

Hello Friends, The  Canadian Blog Awards  are in full swing again. Whatever He Says has been nominated for Best Religion and Philosophy blog. Also nominated in that category is the blog of my friend Susan Starret who writes at  God and the Black River . The blog of another dear friend;  Rolling Around in My Head , by Dave Hingsburger; is nominated in the categories of Best Personal Blog and Best Health Blog. I never miss reading Rolling Around in My Head. Dave writes daily and generously, sharing ideas, his journey of disability and perspectives that provoke and challenge. I hope that you will consider voting. It only takes seconds; you don't have to be Canadian to vote, and voting in this round ends on February 22nd.